Maybe the whole thing was ambiguous, since what I'm reading now seems to be a whole lot of backtracking. I agree with RB (whereas before I don't believe I did) on the second paragraph, and of course I don't think she is right in what she says. On an earlier point, if it were one of my friends saying the same thing, I'm not sure how I'd respond. I value a world where we can have debates, and I'd really like to see more of her in a "controlled, sensible" debate - ie. not one with Perez Hilton who seems incapable of this.