I'm with you Peekaboo. Whilst I'm glad he's come out now and tbh it IS better for his wife that he comes out now rather than never, I'm baffled by so much of this story. Yes we all have an individual story to lead, but when you make a conscious decision to get with a woman, when you know you are gay (and he has publicly stated that he DID know) then you are actively choosing to fuck up someone else's life to make your own easier. He could have chosen to live a single life - and that would have been fine - but he wanted the full marriage and kids thing, which has now made other people's lives more difficult. I do feel more sympathetic than that paragraph reads, but I'm finding it tricky to articulate as I'm quite torn down the middle on it.