Sexual distancing

Discussion in 'Coronavirus' started by Dark Carnival, Apr 19, 2020.

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Sex?

  1. No sexual activity

    56.4%
  2. Sexual activity with the partner(s) I'm locked-down with

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  3. Usual sexual activity

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  1. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    How has Corona affected your sexual life?

    I thought I had no libido prior to lockdown but within a couple of weeks it has gone back to how it was when I was 20 and I'm craving COCK like I've never had in the past 10 years. I haven't had any sexual activity since lockdown and I believe that sex with someone you're not locked-down with should be out of the question even if both partners aren't at risk of suffering serious complications. Astonishingly, I'm still being contacted by people on dating apps/my usual sexual partners for sex, so I guess not everyone thinks the same.
     
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  2. Alla

    Alla Beast in Black

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    Same here :zombie: Some of them are surprised I don't wanna meet when we are "close". :square:
     
  3. Chlammy

    Chlammy Climb on through my window.

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    None. And I haven't felt it much to be honest.

    The usual suspects are asking on Grindr but it's quite fun to send judgmental messages back to them.

    A guy I used to be in love (ish) with has invited me to spend quarantine with him. He's by the coast in the countryside and alone which sounds perfect and if I was 22 I would have jumped on it but I'm quite comfortable with parents.
     
  4. Diddy

    Diddy Rice Queen

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    I’m well experienced in sexual distancing
     
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  5. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    That has got me blocked by a few :eyes:
     
  6. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    I HAVE resorted to cam sex though like in the good old days :disco: And the nudes have been flowing in :disco:
     
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  7. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    :D at the #1 and #3 tag

    :(
     
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  8. Diddy

    Diddy Rice Queen

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    DC and I have been sexually distanced for about 7 years now :(
     
  9. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    :(

    I will send nudes to make up for that.
     
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  10. Diddy

    Diddy Rice Queen

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    thank you for helping me through this difficult time <3
     
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  11. ameraal

    ameraal trash

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    i miss intimacy moreso than sex.
     
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  12. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    I love doing charity <3
     
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  13. RaspberrySwirl

    RaspberrySwirl Leftover

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    I was invited to a sex party yesterday, but I declined. Imagine organising such a thing during this time. They were following the rules though; maximum of 50 participants. :gross:

    With that being said, my sex drive is back in full force, I haven’t been this horny for ages, and only reason why I’m not having sex is because I want to have sex in a filthy club or in a cruising place and that’s impossible now.
     
  14. Ag

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    eww
     
  15. RaspberrySwirl

    RaspberrySwirl Leftover

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    If it’s not a bit eww, then it’s not sex.
     
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  16. Sheena

    Sheena MAKE IT QUICK, LUCILLE!

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    Yeah, fuck off with your judgmental shite.
     
  17. Ag

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    Yes I understand sex, but I'd rather the floors not be sticky or be piss scented, while I'm in the process.
     
  18. Sheena

    Sheena MAKE IT QUICK, LUCILLE!

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    Which is absolutely fine for you. Don’t try shaming someone else because it’s not what YOU like.
     
  19. RaspberrySwirl

    RaspberrySwirl Leftover

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    That’s why you wear almost nothing.

    I totally get it, normally I’d never put anything I own on a public floor, but during sex it’s different.
     
  20. Ag

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    When did disagreeing (it's not even that deep) become shaming?

    Get a grip hun.
     
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  21. Ag

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    Oh and FUCK OFF YOURSELF!
     
  22. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    :D!
     
  23. RaspberrySwirl

    RaspberrySwirl Leftover

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    Let’s not fight boys, I don’t think Ag was shaming me. Now shut up and fist me Shee.
     
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  24. Sheena

    Sheena MAKE IT QUICK, LUCILLE!

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    “ewww” isn’t shaming?

    OK GIRLS
     
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  25. Alla

    Alla Beast in Black

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    :D! Glad to know they're playing safe not allowing a crowd.
     
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  26. OutSynk

    OutSynk My name isn’t Alice

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    Which is why I voted for usual sexual activity.:)
     
  27. Ag

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    Maybe I'm thinking too much about it, but the prospect of getting used chewing gum stuck on or inside you is just too much to bare!
     
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  28. Peekaboo

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    A local muscle queen I was vaguely acquainted with has died of Corona at 38, I found out today. Three weeks ago he was messaging through Grindr for a meet up and going by past behaviour I am pretty sure he wasn't just trying it with me.

    I mean he could have been intensely asthmatic for all I know but still sad, grim and kinda scary.
     
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  29. Sheena

    Sheena MAKE IT QUICK, LUCILLE!

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    Redeemed solely with that post :D
     
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  30. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    We seem to have both extremities of the moopy sexual spectrum here, am and RS. Also Diddy (not on the spectrum).

    ALL VALID THOUGH LOVES!
     
  31. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    Sorry for your loss (?)
     
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  32. RaspberrySwirl

    RaspberrySwirl Leftover

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    I’ve still not had any sex though so I’m as extreme as Diddy.
     
  33. Mats

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    oh, just the usual HO-HUM
     
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  34. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    It's your idea of what counts as sexual activity that counts here! Still on the fisting end of the spectrum, love!
     
  35. Gangsta Nancy Lam

    Gangsta Nancy Lam mess

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    I went through a very brief phase of being super horny, but that seems to have passed. That said, my partner and I seem to have opposing body clocks when it comes to sex and I have the libido of Anne Widdecombe at the best of times so I'm not really any worse off for being in lockdown alone.
     
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  36. Peekaboo

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    :D! I didn't really know him, our PATHS had CROSSED a couple of times in the Pleistocene and I last bumped into him about two years ago in a train but it's just a bit eerie. His profile is still on the app and everything.
     
  37. Ag

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    Sorry but this post really made me smirk!
     
  38. Kalabaliken

    Kalabaliken Pop Precision Since 1978

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    It is not really that surprising that Grindr et al is still rife with guys looking for meets. I would say that those queens who are into the less vanilla side of sex, like bb, chems etc, would not really give a shit about distancing anyway.
     
  39. Gangsta Nancy Lam

    Gangsta Nancy Lam mess

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    Ironically despite having all the sex drive of a DEAD NUN, I am very much on team 'sex is better on a rotating table in a windowless basement, or in an overgrown hedge in a Victorian graveyard'.
     
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  40. SDF

    SDF Bigger Than Us, OUT NOW

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    Sorry for your loss of dick xoxo
     

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