Sexual distancing

Discussion in 'Coronavirus' started by Dark Carnival, Apr 19, 2020.

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Sex?

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  2. Sexual activity with the partner(s) I'm locked-down with

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  1. Sheena

    Sheena MAKE IT QUICK, LUCILLE!

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    WHAT? Jesus, this thread really is a SHAME FOR ALL.
     
  2. SDF

    SDF Bigger Than Us, OUT NOW

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    And that’s to all my queens sexual distancing
     
  3. Mats

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    there's going to be a unreal surge in inadvertent rimjobs once this is all over
     
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  4. RaspberrySwirl

    RaspberrySwirl Leftover

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    Ok so this is as offensive as an ”ew”. :D
     
  5. Sheena

    Sheena MAKE IT QUICK, LUCILLE!

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    I’m into ALL SORTS OF SHIT (not literally #sheenascatqueen), including BB and chems, but I really don’t want to cause the death of my family members so I can’t say I’ve remotely decided to throw CAUTION TO THE WIND!
     
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  6. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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  7. RaspberrySwirl

    RaspberrySwirl Leftover

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    That’s the thing with us clean, innocent, Christian boys; sex is sin and while we’re sinning anyway let’s do it in the most extreme way. :lolly:
     
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  8. RaspberrySwirl

    RaspberrySwirl Leftover

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    Infect me!
     
  9. Sheena

    Sheena MAKE IT QUICK, LUCILLE!

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    I’m amazed #coronabugchasing hasn’t become a thing now I think about it.

    In real life, that is. It clearly exists in KALA’S WORLD.
     
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  10. RaspberrySwirl

    RaspberrySwirl Leftover

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    I mean surely once we’re past bb, fisting, scat and child raping, corona virus chasing and spreading is the only way to go for grindr queens like us.
     
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  11. Mats

    Mats User

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    sneaking your MASK OFF is the new STEALTHING
     
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  12. Chlammy

    Chlammy Climb on through my window.

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    I don't think that's fair. A lot of the ones who are more versed and up front seem more careful about this. It's the usual array of faceless profiles and Horny Marrieds who seem to be asking.
     
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  13. Chlammy

    Chlammy Climb on through my window.

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    Not that I want to infer that all horny married faceless grindr boys are selfish covid spreaders. :)
     
  14. BoysForSeles

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    I’d been seeing someone for a month before lockdown so it’s tempting to think where’s the harm in meeting up seeing as we both have our own places and have been following the rules. But so far have been doing what we’re told though it is frustrating.
     
  15. Sheena

    Sheena MAKE IT QUICK, LUCILLE!

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    I don’t really do the sex/ dating apps unless I’m properly horny and searching, but this business has meant I've not even logged into MOST of them for over a month.
     
  16. Alla

    Alla Beast in Black

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    Most of the people that want to meet with me these days of lockdowm were asking for chem sex, bb and stuff like that, which is quite shocking because my profile has nothing to do with that and I rarely get these kind of messages. Obviously I don't think anyone into that stuff couldn't care less, but it's true that most of the people not giving a fuck now and wanted to meet aren't looking for just a regular shag. That's my experience, so I understand what @Kalabaliken is saying. Not all of them are like this of course, but many of those not giving a shit are into hardcore stuff. I don't know how that is offensive.
     
  17. Rita

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    Oh I could be doing with a spot of cock right about now.
     
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  18. Chlammy

    Chlammy Climb on through my window.

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    Because the implication is that if you have those kinks then you're less likely to care about the health system and public health. It's possible to be into those things and also be a functioning empathetic human being.

    Liking fisting doesn't mean you're more likely to meet during a pandemic.
     
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  19. Alla

    Alla Beast in Black

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    I don't think for a second that ANYONE into kinky stuff doesn't care about health, but I believe that many people who don't give a shit about having bb and chemsex regularly, are also very irresponsible in this situation, and this is what I see every day. I've been locked for 5 weeks already and I had too many offers for chemsex and more, when I never get these things because my profile doesn't invite you to offer me such a thing. This is my experience, so if this is offensive, SORRY.
     
  20. Tetris-Rock

    Tetris-Rock TRAY UP, BITCH

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    I haven't had a shag for about... 10 months or so? A fucking while at least, the longest gap since I became sexually active.

    Most of this has been through choice admittedly (the fallout of my last sexual encounter generated enough drama to keep my therapist busy for months - nothing kills the horn like emotional baggage), but it does make be inclined to tell anyone whinging after a month to GET A GRIP.
     
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  21. monsta

    monsta CAUGHT YOUR FEVER

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    WHO’D have EVER guessed that our new moderator is MARY WHITEHOUSE?!
     
  22. Phoenix

    Phoenix L to the OG

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    I was horny the first few weeks but now it’s all settled down. I already have a low libido most of the time anyway and I find sex with strangers unless I’m really horny to be a bother. It’s normal for me to not have sex for a few weeks or months.

    I’m on the apps but its mostly for validation and curiosity.

    There was a guy who was so considerate and offered to wear a face mask while I blow him. I declined.
     
  23. Kalabaliken

    Kalabaliken Pop Precision Since 1978

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    @Alla probably explained it better than me, sorry. Many of those queens who ARE looking for sex right now are likely the type who take risks elsewhere anyway. I didn't mean to say EVERYONE who is into chems et al is meeting right now, but I am sure if you take risks usually then for many of them, they are not gonna bother letting Coronavirus stop them.
     
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  24. Alla

    Alla Beast in Black

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    I don't have the bb app, but according my friend (yes, my friend) is more popular than grindr already. I find it hard to believe tho, but hey, whatever.
     
  25. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    I've had sexual partners who are not into BB or chems contact me for sex too. I really don't get why we're singling out people with certain kinks with this generalisation! It's TOTALLY judgmental.
     
  26. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    WHAT'S a BB app? :confused:
     
  27. Kalabaliken

    Kalabaliken Pop Precision Since 1978

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    To be fair though aren't MOST people being judgemental on this thread in relation to whether it's right or wrong for people to meet up for sex?
     
  28. big ron

    big ron Nude inspector

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    Kala is really working the disappointed Aunt shtick on moopy at the minute. U OK HUN?!
     
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  29. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    No. And it's really not the same as judging people for what they like in bed.
     
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  30. Alla

    Alla Beast in Black

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    I had like that too, and I'm not saying the others are the only one too or that none of them care! I just said so because I think Kala was missunderstood and he didn't mean that. Or maybe because it's fun to give him a hard time every time he says anything, no matter what. Now that's offensive.
     
  31. Chlammy

    Chlammy Climb on through my window.

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    Well yes, but justifiably judgemental on account of them risking the health the public at large vs saying that people who like ff are more likely to have sex at the minute is a bit different.
     
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  32. Sheena

    Sheena MAKE IT QUICK, LUCILLE!

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    THIS!

    Jesus, Kala. What the FUCK?
     
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  33. Phoenix

    Phoenix L to the OG

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    I don’t think it’s judgmental to judge people who are having sex during a lockdown because it affects us all.

    Someone getting fisted does not make me stay home for a month.
     
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  34. Alla

    Alla Beast in Black

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    To have bareback sex.
     
  35. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    I don't think I count as someone who 'gives Kala a hard time for whatever he says'. In this very case, it's a judgmental remark however you spin it.
     
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  36. straightorbroken

    straightorbroken down the river of freedom

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    Unprotected sex is hardly a kink (and if it is, so is pearl clutching).

    I might add Take A Chance On Me to my grindr spotify tracks next time I'm on looking for sex with chewing gum on the floor.
     
  37. Alla

    Alla Beast in Black

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    I'm not pointing to you or anyone in particular, but you know what I mean.
     
  38. Dark Carnival

    Dark Carnival Tu cabeza, mi cabeza

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    Isn't that almost EVERY app out there? :eyes:
     
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  39. Soldi

    Soldi The UK’s #1 Lea Walker Fanclub

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    At least some people have the choice :eyes:
     
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  40. Chlammy

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    It has nothing to do with Kala being Kala and everything to do with the statement. I'm sure Kala didn't mean to offend but it is shaming.
     
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