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RaspberrySwirl

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I had like that too, and I'm not saying the others are the only one too or that none of them care!

Then why singling them out? This is not about covid, it’s about ignorant people expecting less from those with ”deviant” sexual practices.

I mean I’m sure some straight people are saying the same about us all gays (including Kala).
 

Sheena

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I don’t think it’s judgmental to judge people who are having sex during a lockdown because it affects us all.

Absolutely. But saying those people are the same people who like “bb and chems” is fucking offensive.
 

Kalabaliken

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Then why singling them out? This is not about covid, it’s about ignorant people expecting less from those with ”deviant” sexual practices.

I mean I’m sure some straight people are saying the same about us all gays (including Kala).

Where did I say 'deviant'? I said that those who indulge in 'riskier' behaviour, whether that be chemsex, bareback, or whatever, are probably MORE likely to disregard the lockdown than some vanilla queen who uses condoms for oral sex. I am not saying EVERYONE who is into 'bb and chems' does. I apologise if it came across that way. Let's just leave it at that.
 

Mugatu

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I'm not the most prolific sexually, despite thinking about it basically all the time, but I've missed not being able to indulge now that I've actually started sleeping around a bit more. I've ended up sexting a lot instead and sending the winky face is making my brain atrophy.

The lockdown cannot last in these circumstances. After a few more weeks, the world will become like that scene in WALL-E where those obese people ride around in chairs with a screen in front of their eyes, except this time they're all watching violent pornography.
 

Beverley

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Where did I say 'deviant'? I said that those who indulge in 'riskier' behaviour, whether that be chemsex, bareback, or whatever, are probably MORE likely to disregard the lockdown than some vanilla queen who uses condoms for oral sex. I am not saying EVERYONE who is into 'bb and chems' does. I apologise if it came across that way. Let's just leave it at that.

But you don't seem to realise that 'risky' has always been used as a stand in for 'deviant' when it comes to the denunciation of queer sexual practices.

I'm not very informed about it, but this guy I follow on Twitter has written an excellent takedown of these sorts of attitudes
 

Shirley

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Sheena

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I’m just loving the use of the word “dildo” as a gerund. I’m entirely here for it as a verb.
 

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