I do not understand this post.
You're endorsing homophobic BULLSHIT.What don’t you understand?
You're endorsing homophobic BULLSHIT.
eurgh!What are you talking about? I never posted the link.
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Ok your post was IGNORANT, PRESUMPTUOUS and ILL INFORMED.Don’t come for me, and then post EURGH.
Ok your post was IGNORANT, PRESUMPTUOUS and ILL INFORMED.
See my post and Jark's regarding it. Not hating, just advising. I presume you to be an ally, but that post didn't come from a place being a ally.
Because they're with the wrong gender? It's more nuanced than vile pig.Where have we got this narrative that his wife has known for a while and they had an arrangement? I said if it was true he was a disgusting pig like any other man who cheats on their wife of 27 years.
IF YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE OF THE WRONG GENDER THEN ITS MORE COMPLICATED.You jump on me as I am female and I expressed my opinion that he was a disgusting pig if he had an affair. I never once said it was disgusting because it was with a 18 year old male (if true). It wouldn’t matter what sex he was cheating on. His wife or him have never once said they have an arrangement in fact I don’t think his wife has spoken out at all.Why would that ever be taken any other way, like I have ever been homophobic in the past?
FUCK OFF.
IF YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE OF THE WRONG GENDER THEN ITS MORE COMPLICATED.
I literally never said you were being homophobic. And I jumped on it due it sounding IGNORANT.
Don't fucking come at me with SEXISM!!
IF YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE OF THE WRONG GENDER THEN ITS MORE COMPLICATED.
At some point we (societally) have to get over the idea that having an affair makes someone a vile, disgusting pig. Affairs can be horrible, involve abuses of trust, but that kind of good/bad binary thinking doesn't help anyone.
I respect your perspective, Rita and I am talking more broadly, not in relation to Phillip, but I think affairs and infidelity are a consequence of quite complex and important factors, and to reduce them to good/bad condemnations only does humans and our relationships a disservice.
The media seriously need to stop trying to out people though. Unless they're doing something illegal, it's not the public's business.
I think that's what weirded me out about it being on the front of every damn paper the other day except the FT. Like, we still care?
Imagine if he was still with the BBC, the Mail would have gone haywire.
Gaslighting sucks. And I get why you'd why you'd be committed to your views as your are. But relationships are all different. I'm not FOR cheating per se but I'm not here to judge people based on shitty videos made by fascists.Having been cheated on countless times by my ex husband I would say I actually felt trapped since we had two children together. He also made me think it was all in my head until I eventually conjured up the courage to leave him. The feeling that I was doing something wrong was the worst I’ve ever felt.
Deeply rooted society and media homophobia in the early 1990s caused him to marry a woman. This is kinda why I think the cheating should be viewed in a more nuanced way.The media seriously need to stop trying to out people though. Unless they're doing something illegal, it's not the public's business.
This isn't NORMAL though. I guess his celebrity and the circumstances fed into it being a front page story.Exactly!! Front page news? I think not. Stephen Gately (RIP my angle) was front page news when he came out in 1998. Twenty two years later this is still making the front page, and we're supposed to be a progressive society.
Exactly!! Front page news? I think not. Stephen Gately (RIP my angle) was front page news when he came out in 1998. Twenty two years later this is still making the front page, and we're supposed to be a progressive society.
Has Gloria Hunniford (or "Glo, hun" if you're Cliff) commented yet? I'll bet she has the scoop and will not let anyone on Loose Women interrupt her as she tells the whole story.
Gaslighting sucks. And I get why you'd why you'd be committed to your views as your are. But relationships are all different. I'm not FOR cheating per se but I'm not here to judge people based on shitty videos made by fascists.